Never hesitate to seek professional counseling.
Most people do not understand the vital role counseling can play in copying with a difficult marital situation. The seeking of counseling is not a sign of weakness. Quite the contrary, it is a sign of strength.
Counseling does not necessarily mean marriage counseling, not necessarily divorce counseling, but counseling designed to assist you in the handling, coping and adjusting to difficult problems, marital or otherwise. If you had a toothache, you would not hesitate to see a dentist.